Sunday, October 26, 2008

Decorating for Advent

It’s almost that time of year. Oh let’s face it, it will be here tomorrow at the rate the days have been zipping by. I wanted to share a couple of ideas I have for decorating for Advent. As a Catholic parent I will confess, that I find it difficult….impossible?….to hold the line against the onslaught of Christmas throughout Advent. I really try to observe Advent myself and to teach my children about the difference between Advent and Christmas. I’ve even suggested that we not actually light the Christmas lights on the Christmas tee and the outside decorations until….Christmas. This suggestion was not met with any sort of approval and it didn’t help that my husband was just as disapproving of the idea as my children.

So. I have tried to compromise. If you are the perfect Catholic parent, you may stop reading right now because what follows will likely only irritate you. I salute you and maybe someday I will be like you but in the meantime…I have figured out a way to have Advent lights and Christmas lights and if you are interested in trying this too, you need to get busy and order what you might not have.

What I do is take one string of purple lights and one string of white lights and make them into “one” string by using tie-wraps. With these single strings of purple and white lights, you can decorate as usual but just plug in the purple side during Advent. At midnight on Christmas eve, you unplug the purple strings and plug in the white side which is ready to go. Voila! Christmas lights. We’ve done this for the past couple of years and other than the whining I endure from the children who must have multi-colored lights or die, it’s worked well. (I simply tell the children that if they are willing to wait until Christmas to have multi-colored lights, then they can have them. If they want lights on all through Advent, they can do it my way.)

This year we are adding an Advent wreath to our lawn. I found a place that was willing to substitute purple and pink lights into a lighted candle shaped lawn ornament for me. I’ll use garland to make a lawn-sized wreath with the Advent candles. Just in case you were looking for ideas…

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Hear My Voice: A Children’s Translations of Gospel Readings

Attention primary catechists….that would be you parents. And I would also like the attention of DRE’s, CCE catechists, aunts, uncles, and anyone else who has a role in the faith formation of children. Have you been looking for something to help you make Mass more acessible for your children? Want something to help you teach the Gospels to your children? Have I “found” something that I think you are going to want to check out!

Hear My Voice: A Children’s Translations of Gospel Readings of the Catholic Mass for 2009

This is from the letter sent to me by the author Jonathan Stampf:

The inspiration came from the challenge of keeping our little girls occupied and behaving at Mass. We tried the glass children’s room in our church, but that was more like a day-care center than Mass. I saw parents in the pews supplying the kids with baggies of Cheerios and coloring books, and though we resorted to that once or twice, that didn’t sit right with me. I saw some parents supply their kids with bible story books or children’s prayer books: a step in the right direction, but this still left the child disconnected from the Mass. Then it occurred to me to look for children’s bible stories synchronized with the lectionary cycle. Finding none, I wrote this book, the first in a series of three.


Is he singing the song of my frustration with bringing all three of my children into full participation in the Mass or what!? Except for the part about looking for bible stories connected to the lectionary…and then of course solving the problem by writing the solution….I could have written the above paragraph.

From the preface:

The intent of this book is to help parents and educators bring Jesus’ message to children in a way that will include them more fully in the weekly Mass. This book does not try to change the gospel stories to be stylish or impose the latest slang onto them. It is a children’s English translation, for our children to understand and hear Jesus’ voice more clearly as He speaks to them in the pages of the Gospel.

The gospel reading fom each Sunday’s Mass is represented in clear, simple, and sometimes expanded text that speaks to our children without speaking down to them. The text does not soften the demands of a life of faith, or water down the sadness or joy expressed in this great story.

I really like the idea behind this book. I would have loved to be able to have a quiet gospel time with my children before Mass so that they had already “met” the gospel for the week when they heard it at Mass. The gospel for each week of the entire cycle B of the lectionary (or November 30, 2008 to November 22, 2009) is printed in adult-sized type with the simplified version of the gospel written in large child-friendly print with engaging illustrations. There is absolutely nothing about this book that I didn’t like. I enthusiastically recommend it to every parent who is trying to walk with their children as they bring them into full participation at weekly Mass.

What a useful teaching tool this is! I took my galley copy with me to my RCIA class and there was an enthusiastic response from all of the parents present.

In the interest of full disclosure, if you order via the link in my sidebar (or the above link) I will be “paid” a small amount of the purchase price. I will donate any proceeds to Kiva and make a matching gift to the building of my parish’s new education building.

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Catholic Carnival 195

I know that I am a little late posting this, but if you haven’t already gone to read this week’s Catholic Carnival at A Catholic View please go and support Catholic blogging on the internet.
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Saturday, October 25, 2008

Curry Rice Salad

I don’t normally follow recipes very closely, so when I am asked for a recipe I go a little weak in the knees and get all sweaty because I feel obligated to provide the written down recipe (if there is one) that I started with and then remember what I did differently for that particular time I made whatever it is. I have made this particular slaad for more than one potluck of late and been asked for the recipe and this was an easy place to put it. I will start with the recipe as it is written down and add my modifications as I can remember them.

1. Cook two cups of rice with appropriate amounts of salt and oil….or more or less rice  depending on how many you are feeding. Just adjust the amount of dressing you make accordingly. Pick a kind of rice that you like. Any rice will do but if you use Minute Rice, I don’t want to hear about it. I am quite partial to a mix of Lundberg fams wild rice blend with some Uncle Ben’s tossed for those who think brown rice is yucky. I’ve also mixed lentils and beans into the rice with very good results. I also cook the rice with about 1 tsp of curry powder per cup of uncooked rice. I am partial to Penzeys’ Maharajah Curry Powder for this recipe. I also like their garam masala for this recipe but if you use that do NOT cook it with the rice since it is best uncooked.

2. For the dressing mix together another tsp of curry powder per uncooked cup of rice (if you didn’t eat this at the diaconate potluck, then your version had a little more than that and I thought it was too much.) Add more or less to taste. I like things highly flavored so if you don’t, start with less. Then add approximately 1/2 cup oil, 1/3 cup white wine vinegar, and 1 tsp soy sauce for every two cups of uncooked rice that you started with. If you ate the diaconate potluck version of this, this following step is very important. Measure the soy sauce using the large refill bottle of soy sauce that you keep in the pantry and accidentally spill at least a quarter cup of soy sauce into the blender after you have measured out the requisite amount of soy sauce. It is cucial at this point that you say some spicy words to fully round out the flavor of the dressing and then resolve to change the name of the salad to Asian Rice Salad if anyone asks for a name. Combine the curry powder, oil, vinegar, and too much soy sauce (if you have followed the recipe exactly) pour over the rice and toss thoroughly.

3. At this point you may put the salad into the frig until you are ready to dress is for serving. This makes a particularly good lunch dish if you just scoop some into a bowl and then toss it with whatever looks good at the time., you can also serve it over mixed greens. What do you use to “dress” this….other than the above dressing? Whatever looks and sounds good to you.  Green onions and chives are a staple for me. Grapes work nicely and diced avocado is heavenly in this. Toss some cooked, diced chicken breast into it if you are looking for some protein but chopped hard boiled eggs, tofu, or black beans also work nicely. Other fruits/items that work, drained canned mandarin oranges (or fresh ones), dice pineapple of either the fresh or canned sort, raisins, currants, bananas, apples, olives, cheese, etc.

4. Salt and pepper to taste and topped with slivered almonds, or chopped pecans, or toasted walnuts, or…..

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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Truly Diabolical

I got this link in my email from Fr. D. He called it truly diabolical and I have to agree; although, I would add addictive to the list of adjectives as well. When I have a few minutes I will have to check out the rest of the website, it looks interesting.

Busted Halo Catholic Trivia

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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

On Voting Your “Conscience”

I have truly wanted to avoid making political statements on my blog. Partly because I am so disgusted by the whole political scene this election cycle that my blood pressure simply cannot take paying close enough attention to have an opinion informed enough to blog on it. Although lest anyone take me to task for failing in my citizenly duty, I have formed an opinion of sufficient depth to cast an educated vote. However, I heard it said once too often in very recent days, that someone was “going to vote their conscience” meaning they were going to vote third party rather than for one of the two men who will be our next president. (God help us.)

Let me be clear. I do not support either major candidate for the presidency. I have disliked McCain and his politics for as long as I can remember. I have disliked Obama and his politics for not quite as long. Nevertheless, I cannot cast my vote for someone who is campaiging on a promise to pass legislation that will surely increase the number of abortions in this country. I am not a one issue voter, but Obama’s absolutely uncompromising stance on abortion including voting against protecting babies born alive, and partial birth abortions, etc. totally disqualifies him for dog catcher much less POTUS.

But I digess. Back to voting third party. Unless a third party candidate is on the ballot in enough states to win an electoral majority and ideally in all 50 states (and yes, I know how hard that is to accopmlish for a third party candidate) they are simply not only not going to win. Furthermore, they are not prepared to govern if they do win.

The Constitution Party candidate (the one I have heard most often as the favored third party choice…although, he is not my particular temptation in the third party realm), Chuck Baldwin, is currently on the ballot (not as a write-in) in states constituting 318 electoral votes. That leaves 220 electoral votes that he absolutely cannot get. You need 270 to win.

So to be clear here, all Obama and McCain have to do TOGETHER is get 48 electoral votes in the states where Baldwin is on the ballot and he cannot win. Can’t. You think that Obama isn’t going to take 55 electoral votes in California? Or that Texas (34 electoral votes) isn’t going to McCain? That’s the reality.

And let’s just suspend reality for a minute and ask, “How is a third party candidate, that doesn’t even have the depth of support to get on the ballot in all 50 states going to govern in the event he actually got elected?” The whole idea of accumulating and spending “political capital” is a very real one and a third party candidate wouldn’t have ANY to start with.

I think that third party candidates for President help foster the notion that the most important vote we make is the one for President and that the only way we have to influence politics is with our vote. Meadow muffins. We’ve got a lot of options available to us. We can build a new party by doing the hard work necessary to get local people on the ballot and building from there, NOT by starting at the top and working down. We can have fund-raisers and talk to our neighbors for the the entire 4 years between presidential elections so that there is a base to build from. We can support the special interests that we care the most about with our hard earned money. We can write those people we do elect and send letters to the editor and hold our elected officials accountable ALL of the time and not just the 6 months before a presidential election.

It’s not our presidential vote that we “throw away.” It’s all the time between elections that is thrown away when we could have been working and investing some of our OWN political capital so that we aren’t faced with a choice of the lesser of two evils. If we are faced with a choice of the lesser of two evils, I don’t think that voting thrid party is the way to assuage our conscience. It’s how we use our time and money between elections that will truly fix our conscience.

I’m guilty too.

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Friday, October 17, 2008

May God Have Mercy…

My first words after learning that I had just given birth to a boy were, “The Lord has a sense of humor and he’s not driving until he’s 30.” Apparently everyone thought I was joking at the time.
I wasn’t.

My son has gotten his learner’s permit. I suggest extra prayers for those travelling the roads….I know I’ll be putting extra callouses on my knees.

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

Why Do You Catholics Pray the Rosary?

I know that when I was a Protestant, and truthfully for many years after I converted, I could not understand why on earth anyone would pray the rosary. The only reasons I could come up with like, it must be because their mother taught them, or because Sister Mary Margaret Perpetua of the Sacred Whatevers would slap them with a ruler if they didn’t and those just didn’t resonate with me. Now I am pretty stubborn and closed minded…there are boat achors that are more likely to budge than I am when my mind is made up…so I don’t know if hearing what the rosary meant to other Catholics would have helped me or not. My conversion to the rosary took the flying-flaming-baseball-bat right between the eyes by God, who thankfully has never met a boat anchor He couldn’t move.

But if you are wondering why in the world those Catholics are so attached to their rosaries….or perhaps why Martin Luther was attached to his (yes…that’s true)….go read this collection of posts hosted by Heidi Saxton over at Behold Your Mother. I am guessing that Catholics who don’t pray the rosary and ones that love it dearly will also enjoy this collection which includes my thoughts that I posted here.

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Catholic Carnival 194: Have Faith

This week’s Catholic Carnival is up at Musings from a Catholic Bookstore. Go read, comment, and support Catholic blogging on the internet.

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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Blog Action Day 2008: Kiva. Loans That Change Lives

In these times of financial crisis, one of the things that we are all learning…if we didn’t already know it…is that business runs on capital. But what if you’ve got a business that is so small that no bank is willing to bother with you? What if you are in a part of the world known for instability and no bank is willing to take the risk? Where do you go for the $500 that would make all of the difference in improving your business and enabling you to hire employees, and feed you family, and send your children to school?

You turn to microfinance organzations that make loans to businesses all over the world. Where do these micofinances organizations get money, well until recently the answer to that was wealthy philanthropists. But now small business owners all over the world can turn to people just like you and me through an organization called Kiva that matches donors to small business owners.

For just $25 you can change a business and through that business, you can change a family, a community, and with enough of us working together….the world.

And after your small business owner pays back your $25, you can take the money and spend it on a manicure or going to the movies….or you can lend it again. And again.

Kiva - loans that change lives

Please at least go take a look at Kiva and see if you might be willing to help with a loan of $25 or more. And if you go and there aren’t any available loans for funding, please know that it isn’t always that way. Sometimes there are 500 business owners waiting for loans. Recently, Kiva changed the policy of waiting until a loan was entirely repaid before freeing up the money that was paid back to withdraw or re-loan. This freed up a LOT of money to loan and there has been a temporary shortage of loans available for funding. But new loans are added all of the time and I am sure that the shortage of needs is only temporary so if Blog Action Day has things jumping on Kiva even more than it has in the last month, PLEASE check back.

What are the odds that these business owners will actually repay you? Pretty darn good actually. As of  October 13, 2008, the average default rate is 1.34% with a delinquincy rate of 4.03%. You can increase those odds by choosing to lend in politically stable areas with microfinance organizations with well-established track records of payment.  The choice is yours. You can make loans in particular sectors of the economy, to women, or men, or in particular countries or regions of the world. You can take a chance by loaning to those in Iraq or other troubled areas or choose a less troubled region.

Two more things. Would you let me “invite” you to Kiva? (Just email redneckwomandesign [at] yahoo [dot] com and I’ll get an official email invite to you from the Kiva website) I’d kind of like to see what impact my blog has made. And once you join, would you consider joining Team Catholic, the group of Catholic donors on Kiva? I know that there are more of us on Kiva than have actually joined.

Where else can you get such “interest” out of a small investment of $25? You can change a life, and when you are done changing one life, you can take the money and change another one. It feels good and I am not the only one who thinks so. Here is what one Team Catholic member says about her experience with Kiva

Although I just joined the Catholic team last month, I have been contributing to Kiva since March ‘07 and within 6 months time made 6 $25 loans.  I have now grown those original loans to 22 by reloaning. What a wonderful way to give a gift that keeps on giving.  I have also given 4 gift certificates to family members as birthday/Christmas gifts.  Hopefully, these family members will spread the word too.  I believe Kiva is a wonderful way for me to live my faith as a caring & compassionate Catholic. ~Nancy from Team Catholic

LORD, who may abide in your tent?
Who may dwell on your holy mountain?
Whoever walks without blame,
Doing what is right, speaking truth from the heart;
Who does not slander a neighbor,
Does no harm to another, never defames a friend;
Who disdains the wicked, but honors those who fear the LORD;
Who keeps an oath despite the cost,
Lends no money at interest, accepts no bribe against the innocent.
Whoever acts like this shall never be shaken.
Psalm 15

 

Other Blog Action Day Posts to check out:

Blog Action Day Haiku

Blog Action Day: Microfinancing - Money & Investing

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