You Say To-MAY-to, I Say To-MAH-to?
I will not take the time here to cover any of the reasons why Catholics believe in what we call the Real Presence, or that we believe that Jesus is truly present in the Eucharist, Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity. If you want to read what I've already said about that you might try my posts here and here. What I want to address is what it is that Catholics are being asked to deny when we are asked (for the sake of getting along don't you know) to just admit that it's really just a matter of personal preference or perspective and it just matters that we remember Jesus in our own way.
Let me try to explain briefly. First, the key to understanding what Catholics believe about Holy Communion is to look at the root of what we believe about Sacraments in general and in particular about marriage. Yes. Marriage. First, being "created in the image of God" means that our bodies and relationships can help to teach us about God. The eternal total self-giving, life-giving relationship of God the Father to God the Son, that is so total that they are ONE and from that relationship of love and self-giving springs the Holy Spirit and though they are three, they are still one is reflected in our marriages (obviously in a physical, imperfect way) and through our marriages into our families. "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body" Genesis 2:24 Marriage is how Jesus describes his relationship to His Church. The Church is His Bride. He desires us and union with us (mystically) as a bridegroom desires his bride. Our marriage is a covenantal relationship that reflects the covenantal relationship that Jesus has with His Bride and it is not hyperbole, nor is it any sort of attempt to be profane when I say that it is the act of marital love that unites husband and wife in the covenant of marriage parallels that of the total self-giving, life-giving embrace of Christ to us in the Eucharist. Just as husband and wife should be totally present to each other and completely open to one another in the marital embrace, Jesus is totally present to us in the Eucharist and at the cost of His Life.
Holy Communion may be every bit as meaningful to me as it is to any devout Protestant, but Holy Communion is not a matter of feelings, but I contend that our relationship with God should be based on something far more stable that simply how we feel about it and how meaningful it is to us. I will absolutely admit that we can reject the the Graces that Jesus makes available to us in the Eucharist, we can be indifferent to them but our failure to recognize what Our Lord has made available to us and open ourselves to it does not change Who is present to us. He is Present whether we give of ourselves in return and open ourselves to Him.
How can a devout Catholic then say that the actual presence of Jesus in this life-giving embrace vs a symbolic remembrance is really all the same? You say tom-MAY-to, I say to-MAH-to....we all just love Jesus. It may be true that we do all love Jesus, but my remembering Jesus in a symbolic ceremony vs having Him totally present to His Bride is not the same at all. You may feel free to believe that Catholics are wrong to think so, but we cannot say it's all the same without literally denying everything we believe in.



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