Sunday, February 8, 2009

Famous Last Words: Rest in Peace Michael Dubruiel

I would like to join my voice to those of the Catholic blogosphere, in praying for Amy Wellborn and her family. This last week her husband, Michael Dubruiel, collapsed and died while working out. He leaves behind a grieving family as well as devastated friends and colleagues and many, many grateful readers of his books. I am one of the latter. I have used his books in the religious formation of my children and have enjoyed his blog entries on Amazon for a long time. Michael was a young man; although, I must say it is amusing to me how the definition of “young” with respect to untimely passing is rapidly changing as I age.

With uncharacteristic brevity, Karl Marx had this to say for his last words. “Go on, get out - last words are for fools who haven’t said enough.” Having read hundred of pages of his writing when I studied communist political thought in college, I couldn’t agree more. He’d already said enough. But sometimes, last words are a gift that God allows as last blessing and Michaels Dubruiel’s last column most certainly falls into that category. In his last column, Michael weaves together an unlikely combination of the wisdom of Father Groeschel, the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center, and an antidote to “The Big Lie.” He concludes:

What is the opposite of the “big lie”? Trust.

When questioned by an English journalist about the future of the Religious Order that he co-founded, Father Benedict gave a simple reply, “We have no plans, except to be led by God.”

None of us knows what the future holds, but hopefully we can embrace what is inscribed in our coinage, “In God we Trust.”

May perpetual light shine upon him. His voice will be sorely missed. Please read the rest of his last column here. And buy his books and not just because the royalites will help his children go to college. They’re good.  

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Sunday, January 4, 2009

Thank You!! You’ve Funded a Kiva Loan

I while back I told you all about a book to help with teaching your children about the week’s Gospel readings. (If you missed that post, you can read it here.) In my post I mentioned that I would receive a small amount of any sales generated through my blog and I also mentioned that I planned to give that money to Kiva. Well, I didn’t really expect to have to follow through but apparently some of you actually ordered (Thank you.) and I have received enough money (plus a little extra) to fund a loan. Meet the Nelva Mery Nipa Pelaez Group I will use the extra as a donation to Kiva.

Which leads me to an update to my review. Those of you who have purchased Hear My Voice will want to know that their website now has a link where you can download coloring pages for the current week’s Gospel readings!! So click your heels together and say “I want to use printer ink like water. I want to use printer ink like water” and click below.
Download a children's coloring page for this week's Mass Gospel Reading

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Sunday, October 26, 2008

Hear My Voice: A Children’s Translations of Gospel Readings

Attention primary catechists….that would be you parents. And I would also like the attention of DRE’s, CCE catechists, aunts, uncles, and anyone else who has a role in the faith formation of children. Have you been looking for something to help you make Mass more acessible for your children? Want something to help you teach the Gospels to your children? Have I “found” something that I think you are going to want to check out!

Hear My Voice: A Children’s Translations of Gospel Readings of the Catholic Mass for 2009

This is from the letter sent to me by the author Jonathan Stampf:

The inspiration came from the challenge of keeping our little girls occupied and behaving at Mass. We tried the glass children’s room in our church, but that was more like a day-care center than Mass. I saw parents in the pews supplying the kids with baggies of Cheerios and coloring books, and though we resorted to that once or twice, that didn’t sit right with me. I saw some parents supply their kids with bible story books or children’s prayer books: a step in the right direction, but this still left the child disconnected from the Mass. Then it occurred to me to look for children’s bible stories synchronized with the lectionary cycle. Finding none, I wrote this book, the first in a series of three.


Is he singing the song of my frustration with bringing all three of my children into full participation in the Mass or what!? Except for the part about looking for bible stories connected to the lectionary…and then of course solving the problem by writing the solution….I could have written the above paragraph.

From the preface:

The intent of this book is to help parents and educators bring Jesus’ message to children in a way that will include them more fully in the weekly Mass. This book does not try to change the gospel stories to be stylish or impose the latest slang onto them. It is a children’s English translation, for our children to understand and hear Jesus’ voice more clearly as He speaks to them in the pages of the Gospel.

The gospel reading fom each Sunday’s Mass is represented in clear, simple, and sometimes expanded text that speaks to our children without speaking down to them. The text does not soften the demands of a life of faith, or water down the sadness or joy expressed in this great story.

I really like the idea behind this book. I would have loved to be able to have a quiet gospel time with my children before Mass so that they had already “met” the gospel for the week when they heard it at Mass. The gospel for each week of the entire cycle B of the lectionary (or November 30, 2008 to November 22, 2009) is printed in adult-sized type with the simplified version of the gospel written in large child-friendly print with engaging illustrations. There is absolutely nothing about this book that I didn’t like. I enthusiastically recommend it to every parent who is trying to walk with their children as they bring them into full participation at weekly Mass.

What a useful teaching tool this is! I took my galley copy with me to my RCIA class and there was an enthusiastic response from all of the parents present.

In the interest of full disclosure, if you order via the link in my sidebar (or the above link) I will be “paid” a small amount of the purchase price. I will donate any proceeds to Kiva and make a matching gift to the building of my parish’s new education building.

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Thursday, July 31, 2008

Homeschooling: The Coming Year and a Recommendation

I have finished the bulk of my homeschool planning for the coming year. [Deep contented sigh.] For those of you who are interested in what I use, here are the general details.

We have used Sonlight Curriculum from the very beginning of our homeschooling. I like that I can re-use each year’s curriculum with my younger children with a minimal purchase of consumable materials. I like that we are building a library of real books. I like that it’s an extremely adaptable curriculum. It is a Protestant curriculum but it has been an easy matter to adapt the curriculum to our family’s needs.

Aleks math….may I just say what a godsend Aleks math has been for us?

We will continue using Magnificat for our daily prayer/Sacred Scripture times. We do morning prayers together, Angelus & Mass readings just before lunch, and when things are going well a family rosary before read-aloud time in the afternoon.

We usually ditch most of the SL Bible portion of the core, and I susbstitute read-alouds from biographies of Saints, and other inspirational people of faith. I believe strongly that the best interpretation of Sacred Scripture is read in the lives of the Saints so how the Saints lived their faith is the backbone of our catechism time. Books by Mary Fabyan Windeatt are a good starting place for the younger elementary kids with the exception of the book she did on Blessed Imelda Lambertini and everyone needs to read that one. The Vision series of books (here’s one) is also good those listenee’s that are a little older. The books by Louis de Wohl are similar to the Henty books in that there’s a lot of history in them but they tend to be dry to read-aloud and they are similarly biased like the Henty books. I highly recommend The Shadow of His Wings for anyone who will be covering WWII with jr high and up children. It’s a very exciting book and drives home the point that not all Germans were bad guys as well as the power of prayer! At times I will also work in books like The How-to Book of the Mass 

Some other resources that we have used in the past that you might want to look at:

Mass Explained to Children (this is an explanation of the pre-Vatican II mass but without too much difficulty can be used to discuss Novus Ordo)

Also pre-Vatican II but very helpful Know Your Mass

Another pre-Vatican II re-print My Catholic Faith ….some of the rules have changed from then to now but it’s broken up into very digestible, systematic chunks, which makes it easy to discuss with children.

New to our catechism time this year will be An Introduction to Catholicism from the Didache series. I know my high schooler could benefit, my jr. higher is up to is, what remains to be seen is if my youngest (9 yodd) will be totally swamped by it. I am also hoping to spend some time with my two oldest on the Theology of the Body for Teens sometime during the year. I have just started viewing the DVD’s that go with this program and I am very impressed. I think that teaching our children the Theology of the Body is essential and am enthusiastically recommending this as a way of incorporating it into your youth groups, and homeschools. Please check out what others have to say as well.

Nobattleplansurvivescontactwiththeenemy. Nobattleplansurvivescontactwiththeenemy. Nobattleplan……

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Monday, July 21, 2008

Heaven’s Song by Christopher West

Save your book money. There’s a book scheduled to be released in September that you are going to want. Let me rephrase that. You need this book.

Now those of you who know me more than just reading what I write here and those who read regularly enough to be deeply suspicious that I am more inclined than your average person to tell you that you need to buy a book and that I have never met a book I didn’t like are saying to yourselves, “She’d sell her soul for a free book. This is just something she read for the Catholic Company’s reviewer program. Why on earth would I listen to a thing she said with respect to how much I need to buy this book?” Well let me assure you that while I just might sell my soul for a free book, I recognize in myself a possibly irremediable weakness with regard to that, I have however, met books I don’t like. I have….deep breath….thrown books away that made me mad or had no redeeming value whatsoever. True, I might have a very low standard for “no redeeming value whatsoever” but I do have one. And no matter how many books I think I “need”, I do recognize that not everyone has the same sentiment about books. I love books and I want to see them placed in homes where they will be loved and cared for and so I do not recommend books willy nilly. As I read books I often think of people who might also enjoy reading that particular book, and this one was no different. What was different was that after a while, I started trying to think of someone to whom I would not recommend this book. I couldn’t think of a single one. I don’t know a one person who is old enough to read and understand the text who would not potentially benefit from the message of this book.: Heaven’s Song by Christopher West

In a nutshell, it’s an exploration of some recently discovered adresses that were written by John Paul II (recently discovered writings? how cool is that!?) on the Theology of the Body but were not delivered publicly because of their “delicate” nature. On the surface, they are commentaries on the the Song of Songs and the marriage of Tobias and Sarah in the deuterocanonical book of Tobit. What they constitute though is the rest of theological foundation John Paul II gave us in addresses that comprise theTheology of the Body that every catechist — and I very much mean every — bishop, priest, deacon, religious, parent, DRE, CCE teacher, husband, wife, consecrated virgin, (have I made my point yet?), etc. needs to help repair marriages in the Catholic Church and everything resting on those marriages. We will never solve the problem of a lack of vocations which are a generous giving of oneself to the Church until we repair the vocation of Marriage which is the generous giving of one spouse to another. We will not regain our footing with respect to the liturgy until we not only understand on an intellectual level that the giving of oneself to one’s spouse in marriage is meant as a sign and symbol of Christ’s total giving of himself in the Eucharist, but live it as well. The good news is not that the Church needs to be telling married people that conjugal love is bad, but rather helping them to redeem it from the twisted morass that the enemy has made of things and restore the joy that God intended it to have. The Theology of the Body must begin to permeate our thoughts about the family, the Faith, the Church, and the Liturgy. And that not just my opinion:

According to John Paul II, the dignity and balance of human life depend at every moment of history and at every point on the globe on who woman will be for man and who man will be for woman (TOB 43:7). The sexual relationship — the relationship of man to woman and woman to man — is the deepest foundation of human ethics and culture. (TOB 45:3). The union of man and woman builds and shapes families, families shape neighborhoods, neighborhoods shape communities, communities shape cities, cities shape states, states shape nations, nations shape the world. When the sexual relationship breaks down, eventually so does everything resting on it. (page 54)

To which I will only add. “Amen.” and offer my opinion that this books offers a good introduction to the completion of John Paul II’s Theology of the Body if you aren’t starting from scratch with regard to his message, and that it is an excellent place for learning about the Theology of the Body if you aren’t already familiar with this important Church teaching.

Through West, John Paul II reminds us that being created in the image of God means that from the beginning of creation, our bodies “have had the God-given ability to reveal divine mysteries.” Chew on that for just a moment and begin to realize that to the extent that our bodies  and physical relationships are not in harmony with God’s plan for them, we will be unable to understand and to properly live the divine mysteries that God intended to be revealed through our bodies. Time and again in Sacred Scripture we see Jesus use the metaphor of marriage to convey his divine Love for us. The passion of marriage, the sacrifice of marriage, the life-giving embrace of husband and wife is a God-given sign to instruct us about Our Lord’s s love and passion and sacrifice for us. Is it any wonder then, that in a world where Catholic divorce rates nearly match those who are not religious, where Catholics are just as likely to contracept as any other Christian, where Catholics live together before marriage nearly as much as non-Christian that we are stuggling to understand Christ’s love for us? Redeemed from sin, John Paul II tells us that the marital embrace is liturgical and that the liturgy is spousal. We must understand this, live it, and teach it effectively if we are to turn back the tide of crumbling families and all that implies for society and Church alike.

Here’s a news flash….the thou-shalt-not approach to teaching the message of the good news of Christian sexuality is not working. That’s why it’s a relief to be able to say that this is most emphatically not a book that is condemning. In a field awash with books that can make you feel guilty, West manages to deliver the heart of the message of the Theology of the Body with all of the tenderness that I imagine was in Our Lord’s voice when He spoke to the woman caught in adultery. “Neither do I condemn you. Go and from now on, do not sin any more.” This is not a book that anyone, no matter how diseased and dysfunctional their sexual life is, needs to be afraid of. It’s full of hope and joy and quite frankly, the promise of greater things ahead for those who are married AND for those who are not. You will be able to recommend this book with confidence to those who are already hurting badly in this area and fear additional battery by well-meaning but insufficiently charitable Christians.  

This is also a supremely practical book. It’s already set up for those who might want to lead a book discussion in their parish with questions for reflection at the end of every chapter. It’s easy to read so it’s a good introduction for pretty much anyone who wants to begin to learn about the Theology of the Body both for those who are not inclined to study every point of Catholic doctrine in depth because there is plenty to meditate on for a long time and for those who are inclined to read-more-about-it since it’s a good jumping off place. If you are a theologian, this book might be a little lightweight for you but then again, it might just be the help you need to put some of John Paul II’s deeper theology into terms that would be easy to digest in a Sunday homily or parish study or at the dinner table with your family.  Besides, I don’t think these newly discovered writings of John Paul II are widely distributed yet. (Feel free to leave a link to where they ARE published in the comments, if I am wrong about that.) You’ve got to buy the book to get a glimpse.

And now, let me tell you that I am putting my money where my mouth is. The copy I read was an unbound galley copy. I want this book on my library shelves and an unbound galley copy just is not going to cut it. Furthermore, I am not lending my copy of this book and I anticipate lending it frequently. So I am not only going to buy this book, I am going to give this book the honor accorded very VERY few books in my library. I am going to specifically buy at least one additional “lending copy” because I am NOT parting with my own.  

This review was written as part of The Catholic Company product reviewer program.  Visit Catholic Company to find more information on Heaven’s Song

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Thursday, July 3, 2008

Catholic Blogger’s Choice for Catholic Music, Podcasts, and more…..

Updated here.

I am going to shamelessly steal an idea from Soutenus at A Catholic Notebook who had the grand idea of asking Catholic bloggers what their favorite Catholic books are…this is one post that would be best if all of the comments ended up in one place. Read it here on my new blog.

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Thursday, May 29, 2008

Ignatius Critical Editions….this is COOL!

I am home again and mostly recovered from a couple of weeks of very hard work; therefore, I’m back at the computer. Unfortunately, I am back at the computer working on making up next year’s lesson plans for our homeschool and that means that I am unlikely to encounter the sort of inspiration that will generate inspiration for anything other than ordinary blog posts. I’ll do my best though….

However, I was truly excited to discover that Ignatius Press is releasing critical editions of King Lear, Frankenstein, and Wuthering Heights. From the editorial description:

The Ignatius Critical Editions represent a tradition-oriented alternative to popular textbook series such as the Norton Critical Editions or Oxford World Classics, and are designed to concentrate on traditional readings of the Classics of world literature. Whereas many modern critical editions have succumbed to the fads of modernism and post-modernism, this series will concentrate on tradition-oriented criticism of these great works. Edited by acclaimed literary biographer, Joseph Pearce, the Ignatius Critical Editions will ensure that traditional moral readings of the works are given prominence, instead of the feminist, or deconstructionist readings that often proliferate in other series of ‘critical editions’. As such, they represent a genuine extension of consumer-choice, enabling educators, students and lovers of good literature to buy editions of classic literary works without having to ‘buy into’ the ideologies of secular fundamentalism. The series is particularly aimed at tradition-minded literature professors offering them an alternative for their students. The initial list will have about 15 - 20 titles. The goal is to release three books a season, or six in a year. The first three titles to release in April 2008 are King Lear, Frankenstein, Wuthering Heights.

tI hope this excites other readers out there as much as it excited me! Back to making lesson plans…..and as long as I am making recommendations I highly recommend Edu-Track for this onerous task.

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Saturday, April 26, 2008

Thomas Merton on Finding Truth

The May-June 08 issue of This Rock has a fascinating article on Thomas Merton. I particularly loved this quote from Conjectures of Guilty Bystander (this book is recommended with caution since it was written in Merton’s less orthodox period….but I liked this quote anyway):

I will be a better Catholic, not if I can refute every shade of Protestantism, but if I can affirm the truth in it and still go further. So, too, with the Muslims, the Hindus, the Buddhists, etc. This does not mean syncretism, indifferentism, the vapid and careless friendliness that accepts everything by thinking of nothing. There is much that one cannot “affirm” and “accept,” but first one must say “yes” where one really can. If I affirm myself as a Catholic merely by denying all that is Muslim, Jewish, Protestant, Hindu, Buddhist, etc. in the end I will find that there is not much left for me to affirm as a Catholic: and certainly no breath of the Spirit with which to affirm it.

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Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Behold Your Mother by Heidi Hess Saxton

Even though I didn’t recognize it at the time, Mary was at the center of my conversion. I was thoroughly anti-Catholic when Jesus pointed out to me in prayer that she was His mother and that she would do what He told her to do for His purposes and that it wasn’t necessary to consult me or to ask me if I thought it was appropriate. At that point I was five years from swimming the Tiber and longer still from even believing rather than simply assenting to those difficult-for-Protestants Marian doctrines. It was a long and difficult journey for me and although I am very comfortable with my growing understanding of Mary, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t still occasionally have some of those Protestant neurons fire and there is a flash of  “Oh dear, what if I am wrong?” And so I pray for Our Lord to protect me from all error, especially my own. To give me all of the graces He would intend for me and take away anything that is wrong. And so I am suggesting to those to all of those who read this, Our Lord answers prayer. Pray to Him and ask Him to help you to have the relationship with His Mother that He wants you to have even if that means showing you that you’ve been wrong for a very long time. Even if it means, giving you a new mind and taking from you your prejudices. That brings me to Behold Your Mother, a lovely book for sitting quietly and thinking about what Mary means to us as individuals and to the Church and imitate what they contain and obtain what they promise.

The author, Heidi Hess Saxton, is also a convert to Catholicism. Like me, she struggled with the idea of asking Mary to pray for us and names herself as possibly the most stubborn and contrary of all her adopted children. I beg to differ. That would be me. In fact, she starts her book of meditations with a a story that had me rolling because I could so relate. I hope she doesn’t mind telling me at least some of it here. I promise I am leaving out an hysterical punchline and you MUST buy the book in order to hear the end. Heidi was lonely and wanted someone to sit with in church. A Catholic friend of Heidi’s had suggested telling Mary about her loneliness and desire to have a friend to sit with in church an idea that didn’t sit well with Heidi at all…..

That Sunday my eyes fell on the medal as I drove into the church parking lot. Almost gingerly I picked it up. It was still cold with winter chill. Closing my eyes, I said, God, I don’t know if I should be doing this. If this isn’t something I should be doing, don’t let anything happen today that I could take as a sign that this is OK.” I pasued, then took a breath and spouted out, “Mary-if-you-can-hear-me-I’d-like-someone-to-sit-with-inchurch-today-Amen.”

I entered the church, went to my usual pew, piled my coat and purse beside me (on the aisle, so no one could slip in while I wasn’t looking), got down on the kneeler, and began to pray.

When the Pastor told us to turn and greet people, I looked up to find a woman about my age standing next to me. “Hi! Can I sit with you? I just moved here a month ago and don’t know anyone yet.” Dumbfounded, I moved my coat and let her slide in.

It’s a fluke, I told myself.

The next week I repeated the same routine, asking God to keep me from error, sending up a quick reminder to Mary that I wanted someone to sit with, then going into the church and barricading  myself in the pew. When I looked up that time, an older woman was standing there. “Can I sit with you dear?”

The third week I knew what was going to happen. “I mean it God. I’m going to keep doing this if You keep sending me pew mates……”

Because God has a raucous sense of humor, I will tell you that a punch line follows. But the big punchline is what happens when a reader of the first edition of this book prays much the same as Heidi did. You GOTTA read that.

The rest of the book is full of quiet moments suggested by the many titles that the Church gives to Mary. These are mostly moments from scripture with Heid’s thoughts to get you going. It’s amazing how once you get over the idea that Mary didn’t really do much, how much the small details of her life can serve to inspire and inform us. This is a book to put by your bedside, or in your reading basket beside your favorite chair. Dip into this book, read a little and then let it settle. Roll the words of Sacred Scripture around in your mind and let Our Lord speak to you about the possibilities and let her embrace you and whisper to you of her relationship with her Son so that you can draw as close to Him as she was.

Highly recommended reading. I also highly recommend Heidi’s blogs: Behold Your Mother and Streams of Mercy which just “happened” to have an entry today that I think will nicely round out this review.


Finally, a gentle warning. Jesus warned that unless we become like little children, we cannot see the Kingdom of God. It took God many years and quite a number of strippings and humblings before I was willing to say,

I don’t have the answers, Lord. Only questions. You are God, and I am not … You are pure mystery, and my mind is blinded by prejudice, ignorance, and error. Help me. Guide me each step of the way, and take these blinders from my eyes and help me to truly see.”

This is a dangerous prayer, but a necessary one. It’s not enough to read the Bible … one must interpret it correctly as well. We do this not in isolation, but in union with Christians going all the way back to the first apostles. We must not “proof text” isolated Scriptures to harden our hearts and minds, but invite the Holy Spirit to open us to ALL the truth God wants us to understand. Almost inevitably, He does this through the treasury of wisdom that is available to us through the teaching authority of the Church (the Magisterium) and the saints.

And buy the book would ‘ya?….make it worth Heidi’s time to send me another one.

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Monday, February 25, 2008

A Disciple With Flowers

A couple of years ago I read a very interesting book about the Shroud of Turin ,  (The Shroud of Turin: The Illustrated Evidence by Ian Wilson and Barrie Schwortz…..unfortunately it is out of print and usually not inexpensive on the used book market because it has been mentioned prominently by other major authors like Robin Cook.)

Now if it turns out that the Shroud of Turin has nothing to do with  Jesus, my world is not going to be shattered. But after reading this book, I am convinced that it is more probable that the shroud is the burial cloth of Jesus than not. I think of it as the burial cloth of Jesus. In any case, because the image is of a beaten and crucified man and I cannot see the shroud and not think of Jesus. So I purchased a high quality print of the shroud and hung it on the wall at the foot of my bed.

Obviously, it easily calls to mind the very high price that was paid for my redemption by Our Lord. But it is a detail that I learned of the image on the shroud from The Shroud of Turin, that got me the most teary when I read the book. The image on the Shroud of Turin bears the distinct imprint of flowers. It had just never occurred to me that those disciples that took charge of His Body and His burial, would have included flowers with the linen, and spices, and aloes. I would love to have heard Jesus on the hillside for the Sermon on the Mount. I would love to have been present at the Wedding at Cana. There are any number of events miracles in the Gospels that I would love to have been present for, but most of all I think, I would like to have been among the disciples that brought Him flowers on that day.

I can’t take back the sins that made it necessary for Him to die. I just want to bring Him flowers, to let Him know how sorry I am and to say “Thank you.”

Have you brought Jesus flowers today?

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